Meditate To See Your Path

Welcome to the 10-part meditation blog series that focuses on the various ways that meditation can assist you and your overall wellbeing. 

Each week I will publish a blog specifically dedicated to how a meditation practice can assist with lowering anxiety levels, seeing your path, help your thoughts go by more easily, etc. 

Before diving into this week’s topic, I want to take some time to provide some definitions and answer some questions to ensure that we are all on the same page. 

Meditation: thinking deeply or focusing one's mind for a period of time, in silence or with the aid of chanting, for spiritual purposes or as a method of relaxation

Mindfulness: the practice of maintaining a nonjudgmental state of heightened or complete awareness of one's thoughts, emotions, or experiences on a moment-to-moment basis

Why should I care about meditation?

Because it has a direct connection to health benefits such as lower blood pressure, improved blood circulation, lower heart rate, less perspiration, slower respiratory rate, less anxiety, lower blood cortisol levels, more feelings of well-being, less stress and deeper relaxation. 

Who should meditate? 

EVERYONE! You don’t have to have some enlightened, spiritual abilities to practice meditation. You don’t have to be a yogi and go around saying namaste to everyone.  You don’t have to know someone within the meditation community to be invited into it. Literally anyone from toddlers to elders can do and benefit from meditation. 

Where should I start?

Take your time in trying out all different types of meditation and mindfulness activities to figure out what suites you best (resources provided below). After more and more time is spent meditating you will become more and more comfortable with the idea of being still and focusing your attention to your breath. 

Quick Practice: Let’s Give It A Go!

1.    Find a quiet space 

2.    Sit or lie down and get comfortable

3.    Close your eyes

4.    Breathe natural. Make no effort to control your breathing 

5.    Focus your attention on your breath. Observe your bodies movements with your breath. Focus your attention on your breath, remembering not to control it and allowing it to flow in and out naturally. When your mind wanders, that’s okay, just thank your thoughts and return your focus back to your breath. 

a.    Start with doing this for a few minutes, and then add one more time as your practice progresses. 

Resources:

Books: 

The Mindful Twenty-Something

Wherever You Go There You Are

How to WalkHow to SitHow to EatReconciliation

Coming to Our Senses

Real Happiness

Headspace Guide to Meditation and Mindfulness

Mindfulness Self-Compassion

Online:

KORU Mindfulness

UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Center

Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley

Wildmind

Meditation Oasis

YouTube:

Jon Kabat-Zinn

Pema Chodran

Sharon SalzBurg

Tara Brach 

Apps:

Koru Mindfulness

Insight Timer-Meditation Timer

Mindfulness

Calm

Headspace


path

noun

\ ˈpath  , ˈpäth\

plural paths\ ˈpat͟hz  , ˈpaths , ˈpät͟hz , ˈpäths  \

Definition of path

(Entry 1 of 3)

1: a trodden way a winding path through the woods

2: a track specially constructed for a particular use a garden path of flagstones

3a: COURSEROUTEthe path of a meteor

b: a way of life, conduct, or thought decided on a career path in medicine


Advice on how to visualize your path while meditating:

1. Allow your mind to take you on a journey and down the path it gravitates to. Maybe the scenery is in the city, on a mountain, or on the beach. Whatever it may be, allow yourself to lead you to your answers. 

2. With continued practice and consistency, meditation will come easier and easier. But until you get to a space where you are comfortable with your practice, be patient with yourself and where you are at on the journey to finding your path. 

3. In order to find your path, you need to practice letting go of your thoughts as they come to you. Simply thank them for coming into your awareness and store them away for later. Focus your attention back on your breath, your mantra, or a fixed area within the room. 

Try it out now: 

Guided Meditation – Find Your Life Purpose – Listen Here

Finding Your Path Of Joy Meditation – Listen Here


Written by: Shannon Gonter, LPCC

Shannon Gonter, Professional Counselor in Louisville, KY

Shannon Gonter, Professional Counselor in Louisville, KY

I specialize in working with men and young adults. I am passionate about my career and want to work with you to create positive change. I also strive to create a counseling environment where men and young adults can relate, feel heard, and find new solutions to their negative patterns. Some issues that I most commonly work with are stress, relationship issues, difficulty saying “no” to others, difficulties recognizing emotions and emotionally connecting to others, anger, and intimacy issues, among others.

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